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"Murphy was an optimist!"

Don’t ever be nice, just be nice about it August 3, 2007 11:54 am

Posted by Doug McCaughan in : Of Being Dad, Philosophy
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Stephen R Covey talks about climbing the corporate ladder only to find that its leaning on the wrong wall. Psychologists all over the place have publications explaining why good girls like bad guys. Nice guys do come in last. All my life I have lived very altruistically, and no Dr. Helen, I haven’t wanted anything for my altruism…it’s just a Southern thang. I am generous and kind living by the motto "wrong me once, shame on you; wrong me twice, shame on me." But in business that just gets you used.

More and more I am beginning to believe that I need to quit being nice. I can still be a nice guy without being a chump. Perhaps if I did less for others and more for myself then those around me would benefit more than having me help them directly. The words "not my problem" just do not roll naturally from my tongue. SEP!

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1. Barry - August 3, 2007

Pretty dang cynical today, aren’t we? 🙂

2. Mark Steel - August 3, 2007

Not cynical … just realistic.