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		<title>This kid is going to do alright!</title>
		<link>http://realityme.net/2012/03/07/this-kid-is-going-to-do-alright/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Mar 2012 16:34:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Doug McCaughan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Actually, he should be a teenager now and needs to make a current animated gif.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually, he should be a teenager now and needs to make a current animated gif.</p>
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		<title>Look Out Astroglide!</title>
		<link>http://realityme.net/2011/11/25/look-out-astroglide/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Nov 2011 21:09:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Doug McCaughan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So Astroglide, when are you going to start shipping in more reasonable sized containers? Amazon.com Widgets]]></description>
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So <a href="http://astroglide.com/">Astroglide</a>, when are you going to start shipping in more reasonable sized containers?</p>
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		<title>Is your country&#8217;s GDP compensating for something?</title>
		<link>http://realityme.net/2011/07/22/is-your-countrys-gdp-compensating-for-something/</link>
		<comments>http://realityme.net/2011/07/22/is-your-countrys-gdp-compensating-for-something/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jul 2011 18:18:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Doug McCaughan</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Economy]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why yes it is! The size of male organ is found to have an inverse U-shaped relationship with the level of GDP in 1985. It can alone explain over 15% of the variation in GDP. The GDP maximizing size is around 13.5 centimetres, and a collapse in economic development is identified as the size of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why <a href="http://www.nerve.com/news/love-sex/new-study-finds-correlation-between-penis-size-and-national-gdp-0">yes it is</a>!</p>
<blockquote><p>The size of male organ is found to have an inverse U-shaped relationship with the level of GDP in 1985. It can alone explain over 15% of the variation in GDP. The GDP maximizing size is around 13.5 centimetres, and a collapse in economic development is identified as the size of male organ exceeds 16 centimetres. Economic growth between 1960 and 1985 is negatively associated with the size of male organ, and it alone explains 20% of the variation in GDP growth. With due reservations it is also found to be more important determinant of GDP growth than country&#8217;s political regime type.</p>
<p>[<a href="">Source, Helsinki Center of Economic Research, <em>Male Organ and Economic Growth: Does Size<br />
Matter?</em> by Tatu Westling, University of Helsinki, ISSN 1795-0562</a>]</p>
</blockquote>
<p>See <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/07/20/penis-size-gdp-study-chart_n_903793.html">also</a>.</p>
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		<title>How to punish the woman in your life</title>
		<link>http://realityme.net/2011/06/28/how-to-punish-the-woman-in-your-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2011 18:39:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Doug McCaughan</dc:creator>
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<p>Seen on <a href="http://imgur.com/kELkf">imgur.com</a></p>
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		<title>The (Don&#8217;t Say) Gay Song</title>
		<link>http://realityme.net/2011/06/09/the-dont-say-gay-song/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2011 12:51:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Doug McCaughan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Stacey Campfield&#8217;s bill is wrong. We must vote Stacey Campfield out of office at the next opportunity.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stacey Campfield&#8217;s bill is wrong. We must vote Stacey Campfield out of office at the next opportunity.</p>
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		<title>DomesticPsychology.com url shortener</title>
		<link>http://realityme.net/2011/05/25/domesticpsychology-com-url-shortener/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 May 2011 13:48:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Doug McCaughan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m a strong believer in owning your content. URL shorteners like http://bit.ly/ and http://3.ly/ bother me in that if the business changes or goes under, your short links die. http://3.ly for instance has been acquired or changed to http://qr.net which I still feel was a bad business move. If the business becomes unethical, they could [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a strong believer in owning your content. URL shorteners like <a href="http://bit.ly/">http://bit.ly/</a> and <a href="http://3.ly/">http://3.ly/</a> bother me in that if the business changes or goes under, your short links die. <a href="http://3.ly/">http://3.ly</a> for instance has been acquired or changed to <a href="http://qr.net/">http://qr.net</a> which I still feel was a bad business move. If the business becomes unethical, they could sell your short links to redirect your traffic elsewhere. So, just like I believe you should view <a href="http://facebook.com/djuggler">Facebook</a> and <a href="http://twitter.com/djuggler">Twitter</a> as <em>temporary</em> places for content (much like a bulletin board on a college campus) and instead host your own site like <a href="http://domesticpsychology.com/blog/">http://domesticpsychology.com/blog/</a> (much more like a library or museum&#8230;and yes I know <a href="http://blogs.loc.gov/loc/2010/04/how-tweet-it-is-library-acquires-entire-twitter-archive/">Twitter gets archived at the Library of Congress</a>), I believe you should own your own url shortener.</p>
<p>Anyhow, to live by my own words, I thought I&#8217;d buy <a href="http://twitter.com/cathymccaughan">Cathy</a> a domain for her own url shortener for <strong>D</strong>omestic<strong>P</strong>sychology.com. My first thought was <a href="http://dp.me/">http://dp.me</a> After two cups of coffee, I rethought that one. I&#8217;d say I am not sure Cathy would want to direct people to <a href="http://dp.me/">http://dp.me</a> but then again I haven&#8217;t ever broached the subject <img src='http://realityme.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Study: Christians feel guilty after sex</title>
		<link>http://realityme.net/2011/05/23/study-christians-feel-guilty-after-sex/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 May 2011 14:29:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Doug McCaughan</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Religion / Spirituality]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[BoingBoing summarized the UK&#8217;s MailOnline article Atheists have &#8216;better sex lives than followers of religion who are plagued with guilt&#8217; in a BoingBoing article titled Study: Christians feel guilty after sex. BoingBoing writer Rob Beschizza gave my inner middle-schooler a chuckle when he wrote: Mormons came the hardest [Source, BoingBoing, Study: Christians feel guilty after [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BoingBoing summarized the UK&#8217;s MailOnline article <a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-1388827/Atheists-better-sex-religious-followers-plagued-guilt.html">Atheists have &#8216;better sex lives than followers of religion who are plagued with guilt&#8217;</a> in a BoingBoing article titled <a href="http://www.boingboing.net/2011/05/23/study-christians-fee.html">Study: Christians feel guilty after sex</a>. BoingBoing writer <a href="http://www.boingboing.net/author/rob-beschizza-1/">Rob Beschizza</a> gave my inner middle-schooler a chuckle when he wrote:</p>
<blockquote><p>Mormons came the hardest</p>
<p>[<a href="http://www.boingboing.net/2011/05/23/study-christians-fee.html">Source, BoingBoing, <em>Study: Christians feel guilty after sex</em> by Rob Beschizza</a>]</p>
</blockquote>
<p>Subtle and I&#8217;d say deliberately written. I want to know how they measured this!</p>
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		<title>Oh! I now understand why TN fears sex education.</title>
		<link>http://realityme.net/2011/04/27/oh-i-now-understand-why-tn-fears-sex-education/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Apr 2011 15:41:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Doug McCaughan</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Education]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Apparently sexual education is the gateway to teen sex and deviance! Without sex ed, teenagers would never, ever be aware of the capabilities of their bodies and therefore would never masturbate or have sex. Seen on BoingBoing]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Apparently sexual education is the gateway to teen sex and deviance! Without sex ed, teenagers would never, ever be aware of the capabilities of their bodies and therefore would never masturbate or have sex.</p>
<p><iframe title="YouTube video player" width="480" height="390" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/v3gNQ2KYCb4" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="yes"></iframe></p>
<p>Seen on <a href="http://www.boingboing.net/2011/04/27/sex-ed-cthulhu-style.html">BoingBoing</a></p>
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		<title>We hire fags!</title>
		<link>http://realityme.net/2011/04/26/we-hire-fags/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Apr 2011 15:04:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Doug McCaughan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m thinking of starting a business in Tennessee with the sole purpose of hiring homosexual staff. Here&#8217;s the business plan: Mission statement: To snub our noses at the Tennessee GOP Objectives: Hire employees based on their qualifications and not sexual orientation Provide healthcare to employees and their significant others even if Tennessee will not allow [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m thinking of starting a business in Tennessee with the sole purpose of <a href="http://joemygod.blogspot.com/2011/04/tn-house-votes-to-overturn-nashvilles.html">hiring homosexual</a> staff. Here&#8217;s the business plan:</p>
<p><strong>Mission statement:</strong> To snub our noses at the Tennessee GOP</p>
<p><strong>Objectives:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Hire employees based on their qualifications and not sexual orientation</li>
<li>Provide healthcare to employees and their significant others even if Tennessee will not allow them to be married</li>
<li>Show the Tennessee Legislature that a business can operate and profit while respecting an employee&#8217;s personal choices in religion (or lack thereof) and relationships</li>
<li>Provide the same opportunities to the gay and lesbian, transvestite, transsexual, and asexual communities as the heterosexual community</li>
</ul>
<p>We can worry about a product or service later. Investors? Angels?</p>
<p>If this post confuses you, see quipsofyellow <a href="http://quipsofyellow.wordpress.com/2011/04/23/gay-gay-gay-gay-gay-arrest-me-already/">Gay gay gay gay gay: arrest me, already.</a> and <a href="http://lezgetreal.com/2011/04/tn-house-votes-to-reverse-nashiville-lgbt-workplace-protection-ordinance/">TN House Votes to Reverse Nashville LGBT Workplace Protection Ordinance</a> and <a href="http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&amp;address=439x845455">Tennessee Legislature moves quickly to nullify Nashville&#8217;s newly adopted nondiscrimination ordinance</a>.</p>
<blockquote><p>Without debate, the House Commerce Subcommittee voted for legislation Wednesday to bar all Tennessee cities from enacting their own policies against gay, lesbian and/or transgender discrimination. The action was taken by voice vote, with no lawmaker offering audible opposition. [<a href="http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&amp;address=439x845455">Source, Democratic Underground, <em>Tennessee Legislature moves quickly to nullify Nashville's newly adopted nondiscrimination ordinance</em></a>]</p>
</blockquote>
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		<title>I need therapy!</title>
		<link>http://realityme.net/2011/03/03/i-need-therapy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Mar 2011 11:43:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Doug McCaughan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[[Source, dailymail.co.uk, Bare your soul: Meet the naked therapist who solves patients' problems by stripping off during sessions] In the old days, they called these Internet cams and the cost was $5 per minute, not that I&#8217;d personally know anything about that but I&#8217;ve cleaned enough &#34;phone dialers&#34; off client computers to acknowledge that we [...]]]></description>
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<p>[<a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1362208/Naked-therapist-Sarah-White-solves-patients-problems-stripping-sessions.html">Source, dailymail.co.uk, <em>Bare your soul: Meet the naked therapist who solves patients' problems by stripping off during sessions</em></a>]</p>
<p>In the old days, they called these Internet cams and the cost was $5 per minute, not that I&#8217;d personally know anything about that but I&#8217;ve cleaned enough &quot;phone dialers&quot; off client computers to acknowledge that we live in a very sexually driven society. So at $150 for an hour, this therapy is a bargain albeit probably less, um, &quot;interactive&quot; than the other ones.</p>
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		<title>So, just grab em?</title>
		<link>http://realityme.net/2010/08/30/so-just-grab-em/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 14:25:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Doug McCaughan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Okay, what I gather from this Reddit discussion titled &#34;Do women intentionally press there boobs up against men?&#34; is that women basically have no feeling in their breasts. This changes everything! And explains a lot. You know, like when you&#8217;re working through certain Freudian fixations and she&#8217;s staring down at you with that quirky look [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, what I gather from this <a href="http://www.reddit.com/comments/d6lq7/do_women_intentionally_press_there_boobs_up/">Reddit discussion</a> titled &quot;<a href="http://www.reddit.com/comments/d6lq7/do_women_intentionally_press_there_boobs_up/">Do women intentionally press there boobs up against men?</a>&quot; is that women basically have no feeling in their breasts. This changes everything! And explains a lot. You know, like when you&#8217;re working through certain Freudian fixations and she&#8217;s staring down at you with that quirky look of &quot;can we get on with it already?!&quot; like the one she wears when the line is moving too slowly at the grocery. Oh to be twelve again with this knowledge! &#8230;now where&#8217;d I put that book on erogenous zones?</p>
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		<title>Teens in ABC Documentary: Oral Sex Is the New Goodnight Kiss</title>
		<link>http://realityme.net/2010/01/23/teens-in-abc-documentary-oral-sex-is-the-new-goodnight-kiss/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2010 19:20:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Doug McCaughan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One, there are some things a father does not want to hear: Oral Sex is the New Goodnight Kiss [Source, Mashtrends, Teens in ABC Documentary: Oral Sex Is the New Goodnight Kiss] Two, holy cow, I was born 25 years too early! In all seriousness, I hope this report is media hype and construed data: [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One, there are some things a father does not want to hear:</p>
<blockquote><p>Oral Sex is the New Goodnight Kiss [<a href="http://mashtrends.com/01/digg-trends/teens-in-abc-documentary-oral-sex-is-the-new-goodnight-kiss/">Source, Mashtrends, <em>Teens in ABC Documentary: Oral Sex Is the New Goodnight Kiss</em></a>]</p></blockquote>
<p>Two, <em>holy cow, I was born 25 years too early!</em> In all seriousness, I hope this report is media hype and construed data:</p>
<blockquote><p>After four years researching for the documentary, Azam told &quot;Good Morning America&quot; that oral sex is as common as kissing for teens and that <a href="http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/AmericanFamily/story?id=2834852&amp;page=1">casual prostitution</a> — being paid at parties to strip, give sexual favors or have sex — is far more commonplace than once believed. [<a href="http://mashtrends.com/01/digg-trends/teens-in-abc-documentary-oral-sex-is-the-new-goodnight-kiss/">Source, Mashtrends, <em>Teens in ABC Documentary: Oral Sex Is the New Goodnight Kiss</em></a>]</p></blockquote>
<p>Talk to your teens! The schools are certainly not giving adequate sex education.</p>
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		<title>Dear Lifestyles</title>
		<link>http://realityme.net/2009/08/08/dear-lifestyles/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Aug 2009 00:43:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Doug McCaughan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;d really like to review your product but right now my 4 year old child makes a better contraceptive than your Skyn condoms. Help me figure out how to get him to sleep in his own bed and your product sales might go up.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://lifestyles.com/skyn.php"><img src="http://realityme.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/lifestyles_skyn.jpg" alt="lifestyles_skyn" title="lifestyles_skyn" width="200" height="143" style="float:right;padding:6px;" /></a>I&#8217;d really like <a href="http://realityme.net/2009/08/01/in-yesterdays-mail/">to review your product</a> but right now my 4 year old child makes a better contraceptive than your <a href="http://lifestyles.com/skyn.php">Skyn condoms</a>. Help me figure out how to get him to sleep in his own bed and <a href="http://lifestyles.com/condoms.php">your product</a> sales might go up.</p>
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		<title>In yesterday&#8217;s mail</title>
		<link>http://realityme.net/2009/08/01/in-yesterdays-mail/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 14:54:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Doug McCaughan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Stigma Apparently there&#8217;s some stigma around bloggers, particular mommy bloggers, doing product reviews. There shouldn&#8217;t be. I understand the stigma&#8217;s origins. The stigma comes from those ridiculous pay-per-post services where the participants are encouraged to write shining reviews in return for the product and/or money. They are disingenuous. The advertiser is not paying for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>The Stigma</h3>
<p>Apparently there&#8217;s some stigma around bloggers, particular mommy bloggers, doing product reviews. There shouldn&#8217;t be. I understand the stigma&#8217;s origins. The stigma comes from those ridiculous pay-per-post services where the participants are encouraged to write shining reviews in return for the product and/or money. They are disingenuous. The advertiser is not paying for the post. The advertiser is paying for search engine ranking. The 200 people who read that paid post, or even if it was 10,000, are not going to pay for the cost of the advertising. What pays is when someone searches for the product and the multiple paid posts have given credibility and ranking to the product in the search engines. As a matter of personal choice, I do not participate in pay-to-post programs.</p>
<p><strong>Should product reviews be on a blog?</strong> Absolutely! The Internet is a reflection of the real world. In the real world, if I try a product I like, I will probably tell others about it. If a company wrongs me, I will warn others. It is only natural to extend that to the Internet. Some bloggers will even ask companies to send them products. They have the audience and clout to get this benefit. Reviews don&#8217;t have to be positive. The catch is that if you get a reputation for giving negative reviews, no one will send you their product. <a href="http://www.techcrunch.com/2009/06/06/ouch/">Mike Arrington</a> recently accused <a href="http://leoville.com/">Leo Laporte</a> of <a href="http://twit.tv/">Twit.tv</a> of getting a pre-release Palm Pre in exchange for a glowing report and <a href="http://friendfeed.com/kevinrose/8a45cc86/leo-laporte-blows-up-at-mike-arrington">Leo took great offense</a>.</p>
<p>I have products sent to me. I&#8217;ve had the best intentions of reviewing them but never have. Until someone starts BlogHim and lets us daddy blogs have cat fights over swag, I think I&#8217;ll accept products for review. <a href="http://busybodybookblog.typepad.com/busybodybook_blog/2006/08/joan_business_l.html">Joan Goldner</a>, a wonderful person!, sent me <a href="http://busybodybook.com/">The Busy Body Book</a> when my <a href="http://www.franklincovey.com/">Covey planner</a> had run out and I forgot Cathy&#8217;s birthday. I never posted a review of The Busy Body Book but it remains one of my favorite organizers despite being a Covey fanboy. I&#8217;ve been calendarless for 2009 but am just about to order a Busy Body Book. Read about it on <a href="http://busybodybookblog.typepad.com/busybodybook_blog/">their blog</a>.</p>
<h3>Yesterday&#8217;s mail</h3>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/mccaughan/3777374857/" title="IDE to SATA adapter and LifeStyles Condom by djuggler, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2526/3777374857_fa75b8e80f.jpg" width="500" height="306" alt="IDE to SATA adapter and LifeStyles Condom" /></a></p>
<p>Yesterday I received two products: a bidirectional IDE to SATA or SATA to IDE Adapter and a <a href="http://lifestyles.com/">LifeStyles</a> premium <a href="http://lifestyles.com/pdf/polyisoprene_vs_polyurethane.pdf">polyisoprene</a> Skyn &quot;closest thing to wearing nothing&quot; condom with Excite female stimulating gel. <strong>I&#8217;m looking forward to reviewing both of these products!</strong> The adapter I ordered from Hong Kong for $4 which included free shipping. It comes with a circuit board, power cable, and a SATA cable. I recently tried to buy a SATA cable locally, just the cable, and it was going to cost me $20 plus tax! <a href="http://lifestyles.com/condoms.php">The condom</a> was a surprise and comes with a survey asking for feedback on the Excite female stimulating gel. I think I&#8217;ll be able to find a volunteer to help me fill out that survey (pseudo related note: We bought <a href="http://realityme.net/2009/03/06/watchmen-review-no-spoiler/">Watchmen</a> last night). Now I&#8217;m off to plug a cable into something.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/mccaughan/3778184686/" title="IDE to SATA adapter and LifeStyles Skyn condom by djuggler, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2659/3778184686_5e10452aff.jpg" width="500" height="352" alt="IDE to SATA adapter and LifeStyles Skyn condom" /></a></p>
<h3>The Review</h3>
<p>Here&#8217;s your quickie review: The <a href="http://lifestyles.com/pleasure.php">Excite female stimulating gel</a> product..let&#8217;s just wow! No, let&#8217;s say that twice..<strong>WOW! WOW!</strong> As for the <a href="http://lifestyles.com/skyn.php">Skyn condom</a>, anyone with a LATEX allergy who has been horrified by a polyurethane plasticized baggy as an excuse for protection can be happy to know that your polyisoprene condom lives up to its marketing. Not only is it as comfortable and flexible as a latex condom, it truly is almost like wearing nothing.</p>
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		<title>Note to the DJ</title>
		<link>http://realityme.net/2009/06/13/note-to-the-dj/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2009 04:25:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Doug McCaughan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When trying to have an intimate moment with the wife, romance turns to comedy when the music switches from Led Zeppelin to Meatloaf&#8217;s &#34;Paradise by the Dashboard Light&#34; mid-act. I think that&#8217;s the first time in my life I&#8217;ve actually been able to act that song out&#8230;while the song was playing!]]></description>
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When trying to have an intimate moment with the wife, romance turns to comedy when the music switches from Led Zeppelin to Meatloaf&#8217;s &quot;Paradise by the Dashboard Light&quot; mid-act. I think that&#8217;s the first time in my life I&#8217;ve actually been able to act that song out&#8230;while the song was playing!</p>
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