Category: Family

Happenings in a 5 child, 2 adult household.

  • The cats will win

    I’m the game of will between you trying to sleep in and the hungry cats trying to get fed, the cats will win every time.

  • Happy Anniversary Cathy!

    22 years of amazing adventures with Cathy and so many more adventures to come!

    Married - in Gatlinburg!
  • Stoned dog

    Annie says, “I have no idea what is going on. I taste colors. I see fractals. I’m beginning to understand the true nature of the universe. I am dog!”

    N.b. We thought Annie was suffering a partial tear in the dog equivalent of an acl. That’s a $4000 surgery. Turns out she pulled her groin. The treatment is 10 weeks of sedation, pain medicine, and muscle relaxers. My only question is: what can I do to pull my groin? I could use the rest.

  • Annie loves the doctor

    Antimony gets so excited at the vet’s office. Has to jump on everyone and kiss all her new friends.

    At the vet to discuss a $4000 surgery to fix a torn ACL for Annie the dog. But there is no tear. Dog pulled her groin. No surgery for that. Dog gets 10 weeks of rest. Yes, a golden retriever has to rest…for 10 weeks!

  • Happy 21st Anniversary to My Wife

    21 years of amazing adventures with Cathy and so many more adventures to come.

    Married - in Gatlinburg!
  • Headaches

    Her: “My head hurts.”
    Me: “Can you smell things? How’s your sense of smell?”
    Her: “I smell things fine. Quit jumping to that conclusion. If I stub my toe, you aren’t going to take my temperature.”
    Me: “But lack of coordination is a covid symptom.”
    Her: “I hate this life! Go away.”

  • From the mouths of babes

    Son: “Dad, you should get up at 5am and cook breakfast. You handle sleep deprivation better than I do.”

  • From the mouths of babes

    Me: “So, Noah, how’s it feel to be gainfully employed?”
    Noah: “Pretty good!”
    Me: “You know that Weigel’s card in your car you use to pay for your gas directly from your parent’s bank account? Let’s give that back to your mother.”
    Noah: “Oh. Okay.”
    Noah, complaining to older sister: “They made me give back the gas card.”
    Older sister: “What?! They never paid for my gas!”

  • I played chess with my son

    Last night, as I prepared dinner, I asked my youngest (14) if he wanted to play a game of chess. He eagerly agreed and after finishing his battle on his computer game, set up the chess set on the table. We started playing. I made a move then prepped an ingredient for dinner. Made another move, prepped. After I stood up for the third time, my son said, “Dad, I’m going to go do my school work before it gets too late.” That hit me in the feels. Fortunately, dinner was ready to go into the oven for 30 minutes. I felt I was a few moves away from checkmating him so I said, “I’m about to end you. Let’s finish. This will be quick.” He perked up and I gave my undivided attention to him and the game. In the blink of an eye, the oven beeped. 30 minutes passed in the flash of an eye and the game had turned. Two terrible moves by me gave my son control of the board and he destroyed me. Then he returned to his room to either study or game or both. It was a great moment.

    I wish I could turn the clock back 19 years and make every night like last night. I have allowed busy to replace bonds. Excuses to prevent experiences. I have great children. They have had good lives. I could have done so much better. With the time I have left, I will do so much better!

  • Words of Wisdom

    Don’t drink and buy apps for your cat.

  • Doug’s Mantras

    Quit using gutteral noises as a form of language.

  • Tears of a Parent aka Oh How I Cry

    My children may never know
    How many tears I shed for them
    Tears of joy for their successes
    Tears of sadness when they are down
    Tears of regret for my mistakes
    Tears of anguish at my shortcomings
    Tears of frustration for lack of time
    Tears of angst for their future
    Tears of confusion when they do not listen
    Tears of acknowledgment that they walk their own path
    Tears of befuddlement for making the simple hard
    Tears of acceptance for innocence lost
    Tears of pride for the compliments they receive
    Tears of satisfaction when they smile at their achievements
    Tears of ecstasy seeing them grow into independent adults

  • Adult children, multigenerational homes, and boundaries

    Adult son takes over garage…I can cope.

    Adult son takes over driveway…I can cope.

    Adult son takes over lower lot of yard and landscaping…I’m a little twerked but I can cope.

    Adult son takes over refrigerator and kitchen…we may have just crossed a line.

  • I’ve reached that point in my life…

    I’ve reached that point in my life when I have decided I want a 2.5 or 3 car garage…so that my adult child can live in an efficiency over said garage.