Category: Daily Life

Ramblings, often stream of conscious, journaling the events of my life.

  • A taste of poverty

    Update Oct 29, 2008: The Federal poverty levels have been increased slightly.

    What’s it like to be poor? It sucks. I am a very talented and technical person but our income ebbs and flows with project demands and is often at the mercy of a company’s accounts payables department which may have only specific days of the month that checks are cut.

    "The technology market continues to grow, which keeps pushing wages up," says Jim Lanzalotto, vice president of strategy and marketing at Yoh. "Hiring managers are continuing to look for specialized talent to help them keep up with maturing technology. For example, a candidate with .Net developer skills and pharmaceutical experience is far more engaging to a hiring manager than a candidate with the skills but not the market expertise or experience."

    A trend is also seen towards reaching beyond geographic boundaries for talent, no longer insisting the technology consultants be on site.

    [Source via Maszman Speaks!]

    I like that "trend is … reaching beyond geographic boundaries" as my telecommuting skills rock! I have started trying to make a move from consulting back to the corporate world which could stabilize our cash flow issues but I have learned that doing so is a fulltime effort. That is, fulltime with no pay. I was recently pre-qualified for a part-time technical job. The interview process had two more steps. One, I had to write a piece of code and if they liked the code, two, I would have a face to face interview. The interviewer asked that I set aside 5 days for the code project…unpaid. Frankly I tried to squeeze it in but if I could afford to set aside 5 days to write a freebie for a large company, then I wouldn’t be looking to switch from consulting to corp. Of course, it may be easier just to remain a contractor.

    I was wondering if other contractors have encountered "discrimination" from companies wary of hiring independent contractors as fulltime employees.

    They also brought up the fact (without me asking) that they have an extremely high contractor to fulltime employee ratio and their contractors tend to leave. During the interview they also expressed concern about my contracting background. Several days after the interview I received an email saying they are passing me up.

    I often saw posts to job boards saying that anyone that previously worked as a contractor need not apply. A friend of mine worked as a contractor and he found it hard to get permanent type jobs again.

    I was told by someone who made an offer (that I eventually turned down) that they wouldn’t have made me an offer if they knew I was a contractor. Her reasoning was "contractors don’t feel as attached to the product".
    [Source]


    [Source]

    Americans perceive the federal government’s definition of poverty as being too low. The government says that a family of four with an income higher than $17,029 is not poor. However, more than three in five Americans (64%) say that a family of four with an income of $20,000 is poor, and two in five (42%) say a family of four earning $25,000 is poor. [Source] [How Americans view the poor]

    Poor people waste lots of time on the phone trying to negotiate with nasty people. This time on the phone would be better spent earning money. I just called an important creditor to explain that my client’s check did not arrive in the mail as expected (just spoke to them..they haven’t mailed it yet) and wanted to see if I could wait one more day to pay their $315.88 bill. They said sure but at that point the bill would increase to $691.29 plus a $40 penalty and they would require an addition $100 from me meaning that because I’m poor instead of paying $315.88 I am required to pay $831.29. Read that twice. "Because you don’t have money, we force you to pay more!" Note that’s a 44% penalty! They tack $140 onto a $315 bill.

    Americans are divided over the causes of poverty. About half the public says the poor are not doing enough to help themselves out of poverty, and the other half says that circumstances beyond their control cause them to be poor. Low-income Americans — that is, those making less than twice the federal poverty level, or about $34,000 per year for a family of four — are only slightly more likely than other Americans to feel it is due to circumstances. [Source]

    Definitely circumstances! And examples like the bill above only make circumstances worse. It is a simple harmonic motion. When one bill doubles, triple, quadruples, or has all the chits called in, other bills get skipped and then they take their turn in the cycle of doubling and so forth. Accidentally bounce a check and the bank will absorb the next paycheck of a poor person. "Well, that check caused a bounced check fee, then they tried processing it again so you got another one and of course we have to charge you an over draft fee and since you are carrying a negative balance there is a fee per day until you bring your balance current? Oh, you only wrote the check for $6 for milk. Well, I’m sorry but the fees amount to roughly $300." The wealthy are rewarded. "Since you maintain a balance over $1500 we waive the monthly checking account fee."

    …people with incomes between the poverty level and twice the poverty level also reported serious problems … For instance, about 40% of the people in that group say they or someone in their immediate family fell behind in their utility payments or couldn’t pay for medical care in the last year; and more than a third say that at some point they had too little money to buy enough food. [Source]

    What of health? Meanwhile, my wife urgently needs some medical treatment. She is in pain and I can’t do a damned thing about it. That’s right. Because we are poor, we don’t have health insurance, therefore we have to pay much more than people with money to take care of ourselves. Will I get her taken care of? Certainly. Somehow. But not only will I have to fight the creditors and the health providers (they don’t like uninsured people) but I will have to fight my martyr of a wife who won’t make an appointment because she doesn’t want to spend the money.

    Data released today by the Census Bureau show that the number of uninsured Americans stood at a record 46.6 million in 2005, with 15.9 percent of Americans lacking health coverage. “The number of uninsured Americans reached an all-time high in 2005,” said Robert Greenstein, executive director of the Center on Budget and Policy Priorities. “It is sobering that 5.4 million more people lacked health insurance in 2005 than in the recession year of 2001… [Source]

    Repeat story for Wednesday. Overall though, we are doing better and recovering from the disasters of the past that put us into our challenging situation. We will overcome. It is hard to prosper though when your situation preoccupies the mind because that hinders the productivity needed to change the situation. Oh, I was just offered a position at $14/hr which would be roughly $560 a week then take out roughly 30% for taxes and what not leaving around $300 take home from which you have to pay for lunches and gas which would mean somewhere between $200-300 per week to pay for bills, food for family, school expenses, etc. The math just doesn’t work out. And the poor get poorer.

    In one in eight of the poorest families, two adults work full time but do not earn enough to afford our region’s soaring costs.

    These are the people who wait on us at the department-store checkout line, prepare our lattes, care for our children while we work and vacuum beneath our desks while we sleep. Our economy would grind to a halt without them.

    But with low wages and slim benefits, their jobs are often merely a veneer separating them from disaster. An unexpected car repair, a weeklong illness or the cutback of a few hours a week at work can quickly put basics such as groceries or heat out of their reach.

    Source]

    Are you middle class? I implore you! Don’t slip. (but you are still getting screwed)

  • Molly’s Mystery Ball Stash

    Red Jolly Ball in tree

    Molly can tear a soccer ball to shreds in minutes. Basketballs don’t stand a chance. After long searching, we finally discovered the Jolly Ball (which Petsmart lists as a horse toy). She started off with a small green one that we thought she’d never get her mouth around. It still exists today and although it has hundreds of puncture marks, the green ball is as strong as ever. Next we bought her a larger red Jolly Ball (as seen in the tree picture) and it is still around today albeit with a large split from where Cathy or I (still debated) ran over it with the car. Before Christmas the green and red balls had disappeared so for Christmas Molly received a large purple Jolly Ball. Funny enough, the green and red ball have reappeared only we cannot get them all at the same time. She apparently keeps them stashed somewhere in the neighborhood. I’ll send her out with the red one and she’ll return with the purple ball. I feel the need to follow her on the next outting!

  • Vicodin should be OTC

    A couple of Vicodin would save Cathy’s life today. Medicines like Vicodin and Valium should be sold over the counter. Perhaps, like the meth drugs, quantities should simply be traced to watch for abuse. If too many are being sold to a particular person, they can be referred to a doctor. The way we handle health care in this country is pathetic.

    I know the wealthy can have as many drugs as they want and even don’t need. I knew a wealthy person that popped Vicodin like House. The poor have to suffer. It’s not right.

  • How’s your Monday?

    This day is undeniably the most critical day this month for us. I really need to be on my game. Unfortunately my wife is ill so I’m torn between the responsibilities of work and family. This is difficult because there is no correct choice. Mondays for me are typically always hard. I should get in the habit of getting up way early on Mondays. Evan actually keeps me in bed. Since he only sleeps in the crib a few hours, I stay in bed more than I would like because I fear that if I get out, he will roll out onto the floor. I guess I need to simply trust that the rubber pads on the floor will protect him.

  • The Sky Is Crying

    We have a beautiful rain coming down right now. Unfortunately, the lower pressure gives Cathy migraines. On the positive side, she always lets us know when we need to take an umbrella with us.

  • Joint Compound and Power Sanders

    Bad idea…

    So I bought this new joint compound that make a heavier particulate and falls to the floor leaving less dust in the air. Working with it by hand has been great but slow. Definitely worth the few extra dollars. Impatience got me and I smacked a piece of medium grade drywall sandpaper (the gridded stuff) onto my power hand sander and made real quick work of smoothing out the joints. Then I turned around to see the fog that had come into the room. Maybe in a few weeks the dust will finish settling. Ew. Guess I should have closed the closet door too. This isn’t good foreplay.

  • Silence!

    I would really enjoy a sensory deprivation tank right now. Could go for a depravation tank too.

  • Taking Christmas Down

    So the first rolled around and the wife efficiently packaged up the Christmas decor for another year. That is, minus the tree itself and the house lights. Those are my responsibility. Last year we bought this cool Christmas tree bag that stores the tree very nicely. Er, if only I could figure out where I put that bag…

  • I feel like a programmer again!

    Finally! With the installation of service pack 2, I am working with 2 monitor again! I should have done this eons ago! Hmm. I bet 3 monitors would triple my productivity 🙂

  • Today’s smile

    Great commercial!

  • Finding the right words for SP2

    So, exactly what words should come my mouth when my machine crashes during the installation of Windows XP Service Pack 2?

    Update: All appears well.

  • Do As I Say, Not As I Do

    Being Geek, I hit a computer hard. However, my computer remains my lifeline so although I demand much of and push it to the limits, there are certain risks I don’t take. One that I have neglected has been upgrading Windows XP to service pack 2. Today I take that chance and am installing the once dreaded, highly needed, SP2! Wish me luck.

    Btw, the do as I say reference is to "keep your computer updated" advise that I tell most people.

  • What’s wrong with teenage girls?

    Sarah has a simple chore that I would think she would find pleasurable. She has to feed the cats. The outside cat gets fed once a day (even though I’ve asked her to feed it twice a day in the winter) and the indoor cat uses a Le Bistro self-feeder which only needs to be filled periodically. Not a single day goes by that Sarah does not have to be prompted by Mom or myself to feed the cat. I can always tell when the cat did not get fed because the sad sack stares longingly into our living room window and, if ignored, will bring us a present of a mole, skink, lizard, bat, mouse, squirrel, or bird. This morning she gave us a sparrow.

    When I was Sarah’s age, I was not allowed to have pets so instead I took to feeding birds. I would actually ride my bike down to the feed store on Main Street in Medford, NJ and make a special mix that would attract certain types of birds. Then as I ate breakfast by the bay window, the birds would eat with me. And the neighbor’s cat would sneak up on them and kill them as I chowed. That’s when I took a disliking to cats. Yeah, yeah… life’s full of contradictions. Anyhow, I really took pleasure in feeding the creatures and making sure that they never ran out of food. So it befuddles me how she can callously ignore this dependent creature.

    I am a believer in the school of hard knocks and learning by physics. Perhaps I should deny food to Sarah for a couple of days. Nah, that wouldn’t work. She has too much candy stashed in her room. I guess this is one of those times we (or Noah) does the job for her and it comes back to her in other ways. "Dad, can I have some food for snacks at the mall?" "No dear, I gave your snack food to the cat."

    Little side note, Sad Sack was a WWII commit strip that my grandfather on my father’s side keep in a red, hardcover book. It was primarily line art and similar to Beetle Bailey. Whenever I would visit Nanny and Pop, that was one of the first books I would grab (followed by the photography techniques books with the naked women..boys will be boys afterall).

  • Why should I use your broken music?

    It’s that damn DRM. Yesterday Cathy’s computer gets this message:

    Some of the items in the iTunes library, including "Rough Boy", were not copied to the iPod "Pavlov" because you are not authorized to play them on this computer.

    Then it goes on to list a whole bunch of songs…basically anything she has ever purchased through iTunes. (Blingo has been good to her!) Oh, it also removed the tunes from the actual device. I am sure this has something to do with Sarah or Tommy plugging their iPods into Mom’s computer. How do families with multiple iPods but only one computer get their music?

    DRM sucks. Even Bill Gates says DRM stinks. (see also)

    [Biill Gate’s] short term advice: "People should just buy a cd and rip it. You are legal then." [Source]

    So, my next step will be a long, arduous customer service fight with Apple (oh the bad karma and wasted time!). Simultaneously I suppose I will research how to cripple DRM since, frankly, Cathy is being hassled for legitimately buying music and that doesn’t fly with me.

    Update: Some resources that look like they will be helpful. Mark’s(we)blog and one digital life (showing a backup procedure for your tunes).

    Update: The solution was actually pretty simple. 1) Logged out of Sarah’s iTunes login. 2) Logged into Cathy’s iTunes login. 3) Under the iTunes->Store menu choose "Authorize this computer." Done.