Month: July 2004

  • A New Day! Let’s start the day off with a PayPa…

    A New Day!

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    This Morning

    At midnight Cathy called to say Noah had a horrible nose bleed and needed to be taken to the ER but they got it under control. At 8:15 the call came again and he is off to Children’s Hospital. Poor guy doesn’t deserve it.

    I have tasked myself with plumbing today. Unfortunately, to get my tools that may require a digression into cleaning the garage some. That act is so overwhelming and depressing to me that I find it debilitating. Tools that I took such loving care of have rust and are out of other. Items that I would have never allowed to be left to be weathered are unprotected in the driveway. The buildout in the garage is incomplete. The garage represents all my failings with chaos (lack of control), unfinished tasks (irresponsibility), negligence (lack of caring), pack ratting (the inability to let go), and unstarted projects (fear).

    Last Night

    Sent Amy to the grandparents. Sent Cathy, Sarah, and Noah to the zoo. So Tommy and I went with a good friend of mine to see “I, Robot” (trailer) Fantastic movie! You completely forget that you are watching special effects. Well done! I needed the stress break greatly. It was also the first movie I’ve been too in a long time where I didn’t have to escort someone to the bathroom 🙂 Tommy was on exceptional behavior with only one loud outburst during the movie, “What did he say?”

    I would say I slept alone last night if it weren’t for the cat and dog that joined me on the bed. Surprising and somewhat disappointing, Lucy, our older dog didn’t come downstairs until morning when she needed to be let out.

  • So Frustrating!

    I tasked myself with what I anticipated to be a 2 hour administrative task and gave myself a noon deadline. I haven’t even started!

    But I have a) managed two client relationships b) insured that we will have electricity until Aug 15 c) helped Noah grow socially d) ripped the 11 and 14 year olds new ones unjustly and felt horrible e) did some banking

    I guess I’ve had a day. Much more to come.

  • Virus Knowledge

    I just spent a lot of time replying to an email with some information about viruses and spyware/adware so I thought I’d share it here.


    My profession is website design and computer maintenance and I see your issue frequently. One service I provide is virus and adware removal so I think I can lend you some information as well as some good links.

    What:

    Instead of getting technical about the differences between viruses, trojans, worms, adware, spyware, spam, 419ers, social engineering  etc let’s suffice it to say that some bad people have created programs that can use your computer in malicious ways. These programs may (but don’t always) delete things from your harddrive. These programs may simply watch your websurfing habits and do nothing more than report statistics back to a company that sells statistics (nothings about a single person). These programs may use keywords on your screen to deliver an advertisement to you. Some use your machine as a mailserver to send spam and viruses.

    Why:

    So why are people you know sending you email with nothing in it or email that has viruses? Doesn’t that mean they have a virus? Not necessarily. Your email address is in my address book because at some point I received an email from you. So if my machine has the virus that uses my machine as a mailserver, it will look in my address book and send email to all the people I know but it will randomly choose one of the names and make it appear that they sent the virus. So there is no way to really know where the virus came from (unless you get real technical).

    How:

    How do we fix this? A whole industry has been created to try to eliminate the above problems. For your part you should use smart computing practices. Computers and the Internet are nothing more than a reflection of the real world. If you were in the parking lot of the grocery and some stranger said “here, eat this” you would run away and report the incident to management or the police. So why do we open email attachments that say “look at this!”? Curiosity. Human nature. Accidental clicks. Many more. The best way to protect is to have a decent antivirus program on your machine and make sure that you have it regularly (nightly if possible) update its virus definitions. A good antivirus program will check your emails coming in and going out.

    Spyware is unavoidable. It gets on our machines through sneaky tactics and even the most wary computer user accidentally installs some at one point. Running a scan of your computer once a week to remove spyware/adware is good preventative maintenance. Just like our cars need the fluids checked, our computers need their scans.

    Firewalls. A firewall protects you buy allowing data to move from your computer to the Internet and from the Internet to your computer only if you’ve authorized it. Any suspicious activity is halted by the firewall. You received a message asking “do you want to continue?”

    Passive vs Active. Some programs actively scan your computer. They run all the time and often update themselves automatically when you connect to the Internet. In today’s computing world you must have an active antivirus program. Passive is a program that you run. Scanning for adware and spyware can be passive programs that you run once a week or whenever you notice a slowdown or peculiar behavior on the computer. Active typically has a cost where passive is often free.

    Where:

        Antivirus programs:

    -Symantec (Norton) Antivirus ($49.95)   Right now they have a special.. buy antivirus and get a cd of Atari games

       Symantec has a variety of great products but with an old reputation of “slowing down your computer.” I personally run Norton System Works and have no problems. I think Symantec is simply stigmatized from having been around so long and when harddrives were small and memory was a commodity anything “unnecessary” slowed your computer down.

       Symantec runs the Symantec Antivirus Research Center (SARC) and provides passive scans onine SARC is a great place to research and identify hoaxes before sending out a bogus warning to your friends and family (effective the warning becomes the virus).

    Avast ($free for home use)

    -TrendMicro PC-Cillin ($49.95)    I periodically use TrendMicro’s online scanner (passive) to double check and make sure my active antivirus is still doing its job.

    NOD32 ($60  Australian Dollars)   I know nothing about this one other than I have a friend that uses it

    McAfee ($49.99)   The Package.   They also have a free online scan

       Spyware/Adware Detection:

    Spyboy Search & Destory ($free) This is a MUST have program. Run it once a week. Make sure you have the latest updates.

    Ad-aware ($free passive; $39 active the plus version) Spybot catches things Ad-aware misses and vice-versa. They do a little double duty but better to overlap than miss something. I personally run Ad-aware Plus and it warns me whenever something is trying to change my registry so that if I wasn’t installing something on the computer I can block the change. I recommend running this at the same time you run SpyBot

       Firewalls:

    -Most of the antivirus company’s above offer firewall software also. I use a piece of hardware for firewalling so I cannot comment on software firewalls other than to say I’ve heard Blackice and ZoneAlarm are effective.

    BlackIce ($39.95)

    ZoneAlarm ($39.95 for pro)   This page shows the pro version at $39.95 but shows a combined firewall/antivirus for $19.95    That pricing doesn’t make sense. Buyer beware! Read the reviews and figure out what the difference is.

    On the Internet, just like in the real world, you can find bargins but you typically get what you pay for.

    I hope this helped! Feel free to call me or email if you have questions. My contact information is available at http://www.sidesigns.com.

  • A New Day! Let’s start the day off with a PayPa…

    A New Day!

    Let’s start the day off with a PayPal donation link:

    This Morning

    6am! I woke. I was wide awake! I had the energy to get up! But lacked the mental discipline. I had a panic attack and hid under the covers only to arise again at 7:30 and beat myself silly for the lost productivity.

    Took time to walk the dog and play with Amy. I was happy that Cathy came upstairs earlier than usual but not happy about the circumstances. I had stepped from the room and the dog barked, Amy cried, Noah was unawares and I raced up to have Amy sticking her finger into her eye saying “eye hurt eye hurt.” No scratches on the face and evertyhing seems fine. I don’t know what happened.

    Today is going to be hairy. Thankfully one of my clients has lifted a bit of weight from my shoulders. I must used today for some administrative stuff (regarding bills) and hopefully for marketing. Friday’s are bad days for marketing.

  • Reason to Be

    What is my purpose in life?

    Don’t ask me

    Ask my wife.

  • Losing Ground

    One step forward. Three steps back.

  • From the mouths of babes

    From the top of the stairs, “DaaDee Did you forget meeee?”

  • Of Grasshoppers

    Student: Why does the wind fight me so?

    Master: Why do you walk the wrong direction?

  • Of Grasshoppers

    Student: I don’t have enough time!

    Master: No one has time; you make time.

  • A New Day! Let’s start the day off with a PayPa…

    A New Day!

    Let’s start the day off with a PayPal donation link:

    This Morning

    Exciting morning so far. I woke at 4am (my goal) but my wife complained that I cannot do that anymore. I am getting closer to training myself to get up but I haven’t quite made it yet. Without sleeping in a different room I am not sure how to pull this off if I cannot set the alarm.

    Woke at 6:30 and got out of bed closer to 7am to find the dog had urinated but not defacated so I raced her outside and I believe we are succeeding in teaching her where she needs to go.

    I turned my attention to waking the household by bathing both dogs. Yelp!

    Then I raced off to a Business Network International marketing meeting. Good group of people.

    Returned home in time to help send Cathy, Sarah and the dog to Tommy’s school. Gave Noah some quality time on Battleship which is helping Amy be less jealous. She played nicely near us without trying to disrupt the game.

    She has asked for a nap but now begs to get out of the crib.

  • Non-productive Productivity

    Spent the day basically upgrading my development environment. Felt good. Is really going to enhance my ability to get work done. But didn’t really lend to helping resolve the issue of paying bills in the short term.

  • Of Grasshoppers

    Student: Do you like me?

    Professor: No, but I am not the person that needs to like you am I?

  • Finish the Game

    Wahoo! I shall finish the game! Document that I’d procrastinated on completed and faxed to client. Should have never delayed that long but now its done!

  • Of Grasshoppers

    Student: How much can one man take?

    Master: As much as he can handle, of course!

  • Out of the mainstream hate fests

    The Daily Show sums up the democratic ticket Well worth the watch! You may want to warn your coworkers that loud chortling will emanate from your desk momentarily.