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  • Irritated with self

    I woke at 3am. I should have gotten to work but the dog was laying across my legs and I used that as an excuse to sleep until 5:30.

    I had us budgetted to the penny and things were working. Got blindsided yesterday and suddenly there is big trouble. To top it off, my client that was going to “put a check in the mail Wednesday” sounds like he hasn’t done that yet.

  • Where did the day go?

    I went to a friend’s house this morning to help him with a 30 minute configuration of his wireless connection. I returned home 7 hours later and he still can’t connect to the Internet.

    The Windows 2000 machine will ping the router, ping yahoo and even show www.yahoo.com if you type the ip address into the browser. Domain names will not resolve! It is definitely a DNS issue with the machine as his wireless laptop connected to the access point with no problems and the other desktop connected via cat 45 no problem.

    I’m beat.

  • The day thus far

    I rose at 3:00am and spent the first hour blogging, dog walking and posting the lottery numbers. The next part of the morning was spent exercising my brain. I figure I have to make myself my own client. Even if TN Lottery Results and Complete Lottery Info never make a dime, they are important learning tools to help me break some of the bad habits I’ve developed over my years of coding websites. This morning I rearranged TN Lottery Results to accommodate the new Lotto 4 game. Behind the scenes I started rebuilding the code from scratch to accommodate a clean look instead of the horror that it current is. I also started working on making the code validate which means to make code usable on any browser and adhering to standards. My next exercise was to take the database design for Complete Lottery Info from paper to computer. That is begun but will take a huge effort to complete. Now I must turn my energy to my clients.

  • What happened?

    My blog seems to have temporarily vanished. This makes me nervous. What would happen if blogger lost my blog? All the writings, all the links…gone. I must ponder this and may consider having it published to my own server instead of bloggers from now on. Clearing FireFox’s cache fixed the problem.

  • The one that made me laugh today

    This one comes as a forwarded email from my brother and sister-in-law:

    Mom and Dad decided that the only way to pull off a Sunday afternoon quickie with their 8 year old son in the apartment was to send him out on the balcony with a Popsicle and tell him to report on all the neighborhood activities.

    He began his commentary as his parents put their plan into operation:

    “There’s a car being towed from the parking lot” he shouted.

    A few moments passed.

    “An ambulance just drove by”

    A few moments later, “Looks like the Anderson’s have company” he called out.

    “Matt’s riding a new bike…..”

    “The Coopers are having sex!!”

    Startled, Mother and Dad shot up in bed!!!

    Dad cautiously asked, “How do you know they are having sex??”

    “Jimmy Cooper is standing out on his balcony with a Popsicle too.”

  • Of Grasshoppers

    Student: Couldn’t once it just be easy?
    Master: Would you appreciate it?

  • Woohoo!

    Stress down… My accountant said, “It’s going to be ok!”

  • Car fixed.

    Those things need gas to keep puttering. Who woulda thunk!

  • The day thus far

    So far the day has included phone calls regarding insurance and other bureaucracy including calls about the elementary school bus. Knoxville needs to own their own buses. Contracted bus service is pathethic.

  • Doing and Not Doing

    What I should be doing:

    • Invoicing clients
    • Emailing clients that would have liked to have heard from me Monday morning
    • Picking up two powersupplies from a client
    • Talking to the IRS
    • Balancing the books
    • Programming for Client A
    • Documenting for Client B
    • Programming for client B
    • Calling the school to make sure the bus is not causing my son tardys
    • Calling the transportation department to find out why the school bus is picking up after school has already begun
    • Arranging for the hospital for the baby that could come at anytime (ie. Medicade/TNCare etc)
    • Cleaing the house

    What I am doing:

    • Trying to figure out why the car won’t start
  • Parenting 101: Could you pass this test?

    Fifteen-year-old girl throws out-of-control party, destroys house. Man-on-the-street interviews suggest her punishment:spank her, twice So this girl throws a spring break party after her parents leave town. Much more than the 10-20 high school students invited show up. She hides in her room while the party smashes her windows, front door, and flat screen television (which they were trying to steal but it wouldn’t fit through the front door so they attacked it with golf clubs instead); And "they carted out more stuff than the Grinch on Christmas Eve."

    I’m stunned just trying to imagine it…

  • Is Yelling Worse than Spanking?

    A very thought provoking article on MSN today.

    This generation has sworn they wouldn’t hit their kids. The problem is, the same anger and frustration that fueled the old model of corporal punishment didn’t magically vanish merely because a generation of well-meaning parents wanted it to. Instead of letting anger lead to hitting, it now often leads to shouting. But that simple act of raising our voice, depending on what we say and how often we do it, can hold the potential for long-term harm, says Murray A. Straus, a sociology professor at the University of New Hampshire.

    The article asks the question “would you yell at a co-worker or a bumbling bagger at the grocery?” Our society allows for yelling at children but in other circumstances that doesn’t apply. Why not extend this courtesy to children? I like their “9 Anti-Yelling Tips”:

    1. Defuse with humor (and that doesn’t mean sarcasm)
    2. Sing
    3. Send your kid outside
    4. Whisper
    5. Invade your child’s space (I don’t like this one although I’m employed it)
    6. Insist once, act immediately
    7. Put yourself in time-out
    8. Create a key phrase
    9. Create a no-yelling rule

    You can resolve a conflict without yelling in 15 steps:
    Thinking Steps

    1. Assess emotions
    2. Accept anger, behave well
    3. Gauge intensity
    4. Who and what?
    5. Perspective check

    Talk/Listen Steps

    1. Time and place
    2. Avoid coalitions
    3. Express appropriately
    4. Listen actively
    5. Admit fault

    Solving Steps

    1. Brainstorm solutions
    2. Pros and cons
    3. Decide and plan
    4. Do it
    5. Review/revise

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