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I finally listened to my own advice regarding meaningful domain names

For those wanting to cut to the chase, the last paragraph explains that you can now read my blog at with post feeds at and comment feeds at The links also still work.

Client: "My email address is"
Doug, long sigh once again pondering why he hasn’t written this down: *gives viral marketing speech* *gives who controls your business speech*

The viral marketing speech goes something like this: Every time you send an email you are sending an advertisement for whoever is on the right side of the @ symbol in the email address. That means is advertising America Online with every email sent. Even non-techies and computerphobes know they can decompose an email address from to to see the business’ website. Instead, this person should buy the domain (domain names are cheap now-a-days: $5.99/yr).

Who controls your business? You should but when you are you are letting AOL control your business. If you quit using AOL and relied solely upon Comcast your email address would change from to Nothing sent to would forward to Instead the mail would bounce (get returned to the sender) and your customers would go elsewhere. If AOL’s mail servers have problems, you cannot do anything. If you own your own domain like then you can create as many email addresses as your hosting plan permits (usually in the thousands). So you can have and and so forth. If your host (the company you rent computer space from and houses your domain) starts having problems you can move to a different webhost and your clients will never know because the client/user looks at regardless of which computer serves that domain’s website and email.

More on who controls your business? If you have a domain name, then you can rent some server space (this is called hosting) and setup a website, email addresses, and more. However, instead of spending the $5.99/yr plus hosting fees for many people choose to go with free services like (now wisely using a better domain name These free services often put your domain as a tertiary domain to theirs so you become which means that at any point in time if goes out of business or changes their domain name that your business suffers. Same thing with services that provide you a domain name as You are not in control and you are advertising their business.

Let’s talk advertising. Your domain name should be everywhere! It should be on your business cards. It should be in your voicemail greeting. When you shake someone’s hand you should declare "My domain is!" It should be on your letter head (you do still send letters right?) and it should be in the email signature of every email you send (in addition to being part of the email address). It should be on your billboards and in your print and television ads. Put it everywhere! Tattoo it on your forehead. Now let’s justify spending the $42 per year by pointing out the savings on printing alone. If you have given out business cards with and change to or then ALL your old print material is wasted and you have to spend a few hundred dollars reprinting. That business card sitting on someone’s desk for a year has a bad email address and you have lost a potential client. If you had printed on the business card and you changed hosting from one webhost to another you do not have to reprint anything and you haven’t lost potential clients!

And a stylistic note. A domain name should not be confusing. Ideally a domain name should be meaningful. does not relate to Reality Me. That said, meaningful domain names are sometimes hard to come by. A squatter has for instance. is not me or any of my family to the best of my knowledge. So, when a meaningful name cannot be acquired, get a memorable name.

It pains me to see people using access provider email addresses such as and to represent themselves professionally. There is so much benefit that can be had from your own domain name for $5.99 a year and a cheap hosting plan around $2.99 per month. For those slow on the math that $41.87 per year (probably tax deductible).

And on following my own advice? I own and set my blog up as but this both goes against my own advice and is a confusing domain name. Additionally, it does not match the title of my blog "Reality Me." So, I finally listened to myself and now have the blog under

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3 thoughts on “I finally listened to my own advice regarding meaningful domain names

  1. An additional caution … write out the domain you are thinking about using, look at it carefully. Read it out loud. Some have found that certain words, when combined, make for somewhat embarrassing domains

  2. Explain

  3. My “professional” site is That stands for Superior Internet Designs and comes from the era of when every web consultant, designer, programmer etc had to have “design” in their name. Unfortunately, Superior Internet abbreviated to SI attached to Designs becomes Side Signs. Most of the time when I mention my domain to people I get a quizzical logic followed by the question “So you advertise like on the sides of buildings and billboards?”

    In other misfortunate domain names, I am the CF Ninja which stands for ColdFusion Ninja since my programming specialty is Allaire’s er no Macromedia’s er no Adobe’s ColdFusion web application language. However, the name is too narrow since my consulting has led me into other avenues. I now program as much PHP as ColdFusion and with equal proficiency. Yesterday I completed a Visual Basic for Applications program. I work on hardware, networks, teach, sys admin and give other advice to clients. I have a wide range of skills that regularly get called upon which do not fall under the heading of

    Domain names should be chosen with as much care as we would give to naming our children.

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