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Tinfoil Hats – Don’t Use Your Phone!

Do you think the government listens to everything? This article on AT&T’s secret room might get you thinking.

In a nondescript building near the junction of Interstates 70 and 270 in Bridgeton, Mo., just outside of St. Louis, lies what appears to be the heart of AT&T’s secret network surveillance on behalf of the U.S. government, former employees of the company said. [Source]

Update: Mark Klein, a former AT&T technician tells his story of the secret room.

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Dad’s a bad guy

So I look out the window and I see Tommy standing up in his seat, laughing manically, and swatting at another child. At least that is what I thought I saw. So, to nip things in the bud, I react and rush the bus denouncing their childish behavior and explaining that the bus driver can’t drive the bus safely with them acting as such. So the kids think Tommy’s dad is nuts. Tommy is confused. Mom is angry and I just don’t like myself much. So much for trying to do the right thing. The tv dads make this parenting thing seem so much easier.

Yes, I did call the bus driver and she explained that the kids were just chatting energetically and that the bus has been more peaceful of late. She extended my apology to the children. Mmmmmm. Crow.

The wife has thrown dirty diapers at me. I guess that means I am on the path to being forgiven.

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The Internet Is Great For Education

This year I have tried to make a better effort of going to the children’s school book’s publisher’s websites and make use of the online tools. They have quizes and tests and aides to enhance the learning. Homeschooler’s have absolutely embraced the web. I often find great sites like Presidents Secret History that make education fun for the children. Don’t forget, you can also rate your children’s teachers.

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A taste of poverty

Update Oct 29, 2008: The Federal poverty levels have been increased slightly.

What’s it like to be poor? It sucks. I am a very talented and technical person but our income ebbs and flows with project demands and is often at the mercy of a company’s accounts payables department which may have only specific days of the month that checks are cut.

"The technology market continues to grow, which keeps pushing wages up," says Jim Lanzalotto, vice president of strategy and marketing at Yoh. "Hiring managers are continuing to look for specialized talent to help them keep up with maturing technology. For example, a candidate with .Net developer skills and pharmaceutical experience is far more engaging to a hiring manager than a candidate with the skills but not the market expertise or experience."

A trend is also seen towards reaching beyond geographic boundaries for talent, no longer insisting the technology consultants be on site.

[Source via Maszman Speaks!]

I like that "trend is … reaching beyond geographic boundaries" as my telecommuting skills rock! I have started trying to make a move from consulting back to the corporate world which could stabilize our cash flow issues but I have learned that doing so is a fulltime effort. That is, fulltime with no pay. I was recently pre-qualified for a part-time technical job. The interview process had two more steps. One, I had to write a piece of code and if they liked the code, two, I would have a face to face interview. The interviewer asked that I set aside 5 days for the code project…unpaid. Frankly I tried to squeeze it in but if I could afford to set aside 5 days to write a freebie for a large company, then I wouldn’t be looking to switch from consulting to corp. Of course, it may be easier just to remain a contractor.

I was wondering if other contractors have encountered "discrimination" from companies wary of hiring independent contractors as fulltime employees.

They also brought up the fact (without me asking) that they have an extremely high contractor to fulltime employee ratio and their contractors tend to leave. During the interview they also expressed concern about my contracting background. Several days after the interview I received an email saying they are passing me up.

I often saw posts to job boards saying that anyone that previously worked as a contractor need not apply. A friend of mine worked as a contractor and he found it hard to get permanent type jobs again.

I was told by someone who made an offer (that I eventually turned down) that they wouldn’t have made me an offer if they knew I was a contractor. Her reasoning was "contractors don’t feel as attached to the product".
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Americans perceive the federal government’s definition of poverty as being too low. The government says that a family of four with an income higher than $17,029 is not poor. However, more than three in five Americans (64%) say that a family of four with an income of $20,000 is poor, and two in five (42%) say a family of four earning $25,000 is poor. [Source] [How Americans view the poor]

Poor people waste lots of time on the phone trying to negotiate with nasty people. This time on the phone would be better spent earning money. I just called an important creditor to explain that my client’s check did not arrive in the mail as expected (just spoke to them..they haven’t mailed it yet) and wanted to see if I could wait one more day to pay their $315.88 bill. They said sure but at that point the bill would increase to $691.29 plus a $40 penalty and they would require an addition $100 from me meaning that because I’m poor instead of paying $315.88 I am required to pay $831.29. Read that twice. "Because you don’t have money, we force you to pay more!" Note that’s a 44% penalty! They tack $140 onto a $315 bill.

Americans are divided over the causes of poverty. About half the public says the poor are not doing enough to help themselves out of poverty, and the other half says that circumstances beyond their control cause them to be poor. Low-income Americans — that is, those making less than twice the federal poverty level, or about $34,000 per year for a family of four — are only slightly more likely than other Americans to feel it is due to circumstances. [Source]

Definitely circumstances! And examples like the bill above only make circumstances worse. It is a simple harmonic motion. When one bill doubles, triple, quadruples, or has all the chits called in, other bills get skipped and then they take their turn in the cycle of doubling and so forth. Accidentally bounce a check and the bank will absorb the next paycheck of a poor person. "Well, that check caused a bounced check fee, then they tried processing it again so you got another one and of course we have to charge you an over draft fee and since you are carrying a negative balance there is a fee per day until you bring your balance current? Oh, you only wrote the check for $6 for milk. Well, I’m sorry but the fees amount to roughly $300." The wealthy are rewarded. "Since you maintain a balance over $1500 we waive the monthly checking account fee."

…people with incomes between the poverty level and twice the poverty level also reported serious problems … For instance, about 40% of the people in that group say they or someone in their immediate family fell behind in their utility payments or couldn’t pay for medical care in the last year; and more than a third say that at some point they had too little money to buy enough food. [Source]

What of health? Meanwhile, my wife urgently needs some medical treatment. She is in pain and I can’t do a damned thing about it. That’s right. Because we are poor, we don’t have health insurance, therefore we have to pay much more than people with money to take care of ourselves. Will I get her taken care of? Certainly. Somehow. But not only will I have to fight the creditors and the health providers (they don’t like uninsured people) but I will have to fight my martyr of a wife who won’t make an appointment because she doesn’t want to spend the money.

Data released today by the Census Bureau show that the number of uninsured Americans stood at a record 46.6 million in 2005, with 15.9 percent of Americans lacking health coverage. “The number of uninsured Americans reached an all-time high in 2005,” said Robert Greenstein, executive director of the Center on Budget and Policy Priorities. “It is sobering that 5.4 million more people lacked health insurance in 2005 than in the recession year of 2001… [Source]

Repeat story for Wednesday. Overall though, we are doing better and recovering from the disasters of the past that put us into our challenging situation. We will overcome. It is hard to prosper though when your situation preoccupies the mind because that hinders the productivity needed to change the situation. Oh, I was just offered a position at $14/hr which would be roughly $560 a week then take out roughly 30% for taxes and what not leaving around $300 take home from which you have to pay for lunches and gas which would mean somewhere between $200-300 per week to pay for bills, food for family, school expenses, etc. The math just doesn’t work out. And the poor get poorer.

In one in eight of the poorest families, two adults work full time but do not earn enough to afford our region’s soaring costs.

These are the people who wait on us at the department-store checkout line, prepare our lattes, care for our children while we work and vacuum beneath our desks while we sleep. Our economy would grind to a halt without them.

But with low wages and slim benefits, their jobs are often merely a veneer separating them from disaster. An unexpected car repair, a weeklong illness or the cutback of a few hours a week at work can quickly put basics such as groceries or heat out of their reach.

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Are you middle class? I implore you! Don’t slip. (but you are still getting screwed)

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Do something for your blogger

I saw a great post over at Digital Media Minute titled "Top 6 Ways to Tip Your Favorite Blogger"

  1. Click their "dontate" buttons
  2. Buy them an item from their Amazon Wishlist
  3. Send them an iTunes Gift Certificate
  4. Get them a Flickr Pro Account
  5. Buy something for yourself through their affiliate advertisers
  6. Send them an E-Card

Read the post for details on each item. Really good suggestions!

Cathy suggests a different, less materialistic, approach.

dontate button

Button created for AT per his request.

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Molly’s Mystery Ball Stash

Red Jolly Ball in tree

Molly can tear a soccer ball to shreds in minutes. Basketballs don’t stand a chance. After long searching, we finally discovered the Jolly Ball (which Petsmart lists as a horse toy). She started off with a small green one that we thought she’d never get her mouth around. It still exists today and although it has hundreds of puncture marks, the green ball is as strong as ever. Next we bought her a larger red Jolly Ball (as seen in the tree picture) and it is still around today albeit with a large split from where Cathy or I (still debated) ran over it with the car. Before Christmas the green and red balls had disappeared so for Christmas Molly received a large purple Jolly Ball. Funny enough, the green and red ball have reappeared only we cannot get them all at the same time. She apparently keeps them stashed somewhere in the neighborhood. I’ll send her out with the red one and she’ll return with the purple ball. I feel the need to follow her on the next outting!

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Vicodin should be OTC

A couple of Vicodin would save Cathy’s life today. Medicines like Vicodin and Valium should be sold over the counter. Perhaps, like the meth drugs, quantities should simply be traced to watch for abuse. If too many are being sold to a particular person, they can be referred to a doctor. The way we handle health care in this country is pathetic.

I know the wealthy can have as many drugs as they want and even don’t need. I knew a wealthy person that popped Vicodin like House. The poor have to suffer. It’s not right.

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How’s your Monday?

This day is undeniably the most critical day this month for us. I really need to be on my game. Unfortunately my wife is ill so I’m torn between the responsibilities of work and family. This is difficult because there is no correct choice. Mondays for me are typically always hard. I should get in the habit of getting up way early on Mondays. Evan actually keeps me in bed. Since he only sleeps in the crib a few hours, I stay in bed more than I would like because I fear that if I get out, he will roll out onto the floor. I guess I need to simply trust that the rubber pads on the floor will protect him.

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LASIK – just point and shoot!

LASIK@home

Tired of blurry vision? Tired of contacts and glasses? Have you considered LASIK but just don’t like the big price tag? Now there is a solution for you! LASIK@Home! Yes, we are talking about affordable in-home LASIK surgery you can do yourself!

In the past, LASIK surgery was an expensive procedure that could only be performed by skilled professionals in a doctor’s office or eye clinic. Often costing upwards of $1000 per eye and almost never covered by insurance, Laser-Assisted In Situ Keratomileusis (LASIK) was beyond the reach of most Americans. [Source]

Clear vision is a mere four steps away!

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Give Free Hugs – Get Harassed By The Man

You know.. I could see apprehensive people thinking "this perv is looking for a cheap feel" or "what a creative way to get a date" but the guy isn’t doing either. He is genuinely giving love. Watch the video and see the smiles he brings. The joy. The bonding and community. Then, in response, our society tries to take him down. Douse the good. Make a negative from a positive. But there is hope and the community rebounds and gives back what Juan Mann started. The community gives love and where Juan Mann first supported them and brought them up, they in turn help him. It’s a good watch.

Read the story behind the serial hugger Juan Mann.

Juan Mann (pronounced one man) is a play on words, but the hugger insisted his rules included no names, no phone numbers, no relationships and no dates. [Source]